Living Your Style This Year
There are over seven billion people on this planet earth and no one else has your DNA. None of them, histories past non are like you.
You have been the only one designed.
After you were designed and birthed in this world, that mold was broken. Understand how unique and special and awesome you are. You are worthy of all the great things your life has in store.
My job today is to encourage you to live out your unique life and find your style. You know I was thinking about how often we try to compare ourselves. A good man was talking about not comparing yourself to other people today and when comparing it creates frustration, doubt and sense of stress. How disappointing that is for our life, for our mind and our soul. And the disappointment of comparing ourselves to others in this world never lives up to our trust style.
Your style is what makes this world a beautiful thing-
Having a conversation with my wife and she was talking about how the women so much compare themselves to what they see. Maybe it’s on television, through magazines, on social media, through any outlet that entertainment can bring — anything that is all about the look. Having that look and then try to compare yourself to that person that you are seeing, that if you don’t look like that person, then there’s got to be something that is so wrong with me.
And that is a lie. Listen to me maximizers — that is a lie, a lie and another lie because you were designed on purpose, created for your unique style. And there is a purpose for your life.
24/7 Nature around us is displaying it’s unique style and it does not get old, its cherished the longer we can appreciate in life. And that’s why todays talk on being unique and embracing that, fully embracing your uniqueness, style and being proud of who you are.
Three ways to live your style-
Allow this to encourage you to live your style this year.
"I Won't Do It" to "Yes, I Did It!"
Here is a great illustration of what it takes to breakthrough in your life. You pick the destination, whether its a calling or a passion to pursue, the biggest obstacle is yourself period.
I dealt with this knowing I wanted to lose 50+ lbs and I was such in a rut that thinking I could do it was a far fetched idea. you see even in this illustration you only see yourself, this illustration doesn’t point or show those that love you that would surround you as well, shouting from the sidelines.
Success requires massive change in some areas and small changes in others. For instance you are making minimum wage and desire to make six figures or $100K , guess what if you don’t have a vehicle or direction to do that you will need to find one. It could be a massive step but doable. Maybe, you need to lose 100lbs and I am on that journey, there are some massive steps you need take and some major choices longterm to reach that goal. But, make your “I want to do it” move to “how do I do it” as fast as possible. I guarantee you already know how to do it.
Yourself tomorrow will always be grateful for what you do today to set him or her up for success. Take the next step challenge until you can say “Yes, I did it!”
I hope this encourages you today as it has encouraged me.
Blessings Coach Milton
Think Good Thoughts, Simple Right?
How do I think Good thoughts?
Ok. This is a simple formula and here it is:
Input → Thoughts → Action
When I was in junior high and high school, my father made me listen to and read a book called , “where there is a will, there is an A.” This short read now but long at the time, was a seed planted to set me on the course to think good thoughts.
I use this philosophy as an anchor when i am facing tough situations or challenging thoughts in my life. I wish I can say how easy this process is but it is not , and in most cases a journey of trial and error. The mind is a powerful thing and I say we use it well beneath it’s ability as problem solver. I am convinced what we dwell upon will at some level come to us. I know that thought can seem out there in space a bit, but it’s true.
In fact, the idea that your mind can change your world almost seems too good to be true.
I can assure you, however, that I have experienced AND witnessed the good that focusing on the positive can bring.
But before I get into that, let me ask you a question.
Can you guess what the most successful and happy people think about all day long?
The answer is quite simple…
They think about what they input in their mind whether external or internally. If its just an ability to hold a goal or focus on a task that brings them to fulfillment or it is the ability to create positive boundaries in your mind. Using pictures, words, audio, video as your tools to constantly bring you to the place where you are thinking good thoughts.
Think Good Thoughts and you win!
Blessings on your journey- Coach Milton
Milton is genuine, persistent, and sincere. There are very few things that detract Milton from his pursuit of what he believes in. His attitude is fantastic and professionalism top notch. -
International speaker, creator of Maximizing Moments with Milton and the Author of Your Purpose, Your App -How to Stop Drifting and Start Living.